[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/prvni-rande\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/prvni-rande\/","headline":"Prvn\u00ed rande","name":"Prvn\u00ed rande","description":"Z hlediska psychologick\u00e9ho je prvn\u00ed rande ud\u00e1lost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 b\u00fdv\u00e1 pro \u010dlov\u011bka velmi stresuj\u00edc\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco d\u00e1my se v\u011bt\u0161inou fint\u00ed, aby sv\u016fj prot\u011bj\u0161ek nadchly, n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei to a\u017e tolik ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed. Nechci t\u00edm v\u0161ak \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee by mu\u017ei byli na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce m\u00e9n\u011b nerv\u00f3zn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Prvn\u00ed l\u00e1sku pozn\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u011bti v mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u010di z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole. V\u011bt\u0161inou to nen\u00ed ono a vztah se ... P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst \"Prvn\u00ed rande\"<\/span> »<\/a>","datePublished":"2020-01-04","dateModified":"2023-06-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9cac53ffad5d6e0659d72eaf216400c165f8fbf396c79017c66698a8aa5be23d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9cac53ffad5d6e0659d72eaf216400c165f8fbf396c79017c66698a8aa5be23d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"zasekni.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a369634_w4414_t1581768729.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a369634_w4414_t1581768729.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/prvni-rande\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":526,"articleBody":"Z hlediska psychologick\u00e9ho je prvn\u00ed rande ud\u00e1lost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 b\u00fdv\u00e1 pro \u010dlov\u011bka velmi stresuj\u00edc\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco d\u00e1my se v\u011bt\u0161inou fint\u00ed, aby sv\u016fj prot\u011bj\u0161ek nadchly, n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei to a\u017e tolik ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed. Nechci t\u00edm v\u0161ak \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee by mu\u017ei byli na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce m\u00e9n\u011b nerv\u00f3zn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.Prvn\u00ed l\u00e1sku pozn\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u011bti v mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u010di z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole. V\u011bt\u0161inou to nen\u00ed ono a vztah se brzy rozpadne. Takov\u00e9 to skute\u010dn\u00e9 rande v prav\u00e9m slova smyslu pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed dle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru star\u0161\u00ed patn\u00e1cti let. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b existuj\u00ed op\u011bt v\u00fdjimky. Zn\u00e1m toti\u017e ve sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed i ty, kter\u00fdm se po\u0161t\u011bstilo hned napoprv\u00e9 a jsou spolu ji\u017e od z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161koly.J\u00e1 osobn\u011b jsem takov\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed nem\u011bla, a proto jsem m\u011bla mo\u017enost j\u00edt na n\u011bkolik rande s r\u016fzn\u00fdmi mu\u017ei. Jednalo se pouze o sch\u016fzky v kav\u00e1rn\u011b, kde jsme si pov\u00eddali. A\u010dkoli to m\u016f\u017ee zn\u00edt jako stereotyp a nez\u00e1bava, opak je pravdou. Ka\u017ed\u00fd mu\u017e je toti\u017e origin\u00e1ln\u00ed a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 rande nebylo \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u00e9.Spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 m\u00edstoJak jsem ji\u017e v\u00fd\u0161e zm\u00ednila j\u00e1 jsem se s doty\u010dn\u00fdm domluvila na kav\u00e1rn\u011b. Spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 m\u00edsto je v\u0161ak z\u00e1kladem. Vzpom\u00ednky na n\u011bj v\u00e1m toti\u017e z\u016fstanou v hlav\u011b napo\u0159\u00e1d. N\u011bkdo je pozv\u00e1n do kina, jin\u00fd do p\u0159\u00edrody, n\u011bkdo se sejde t\u0159eba na ulici a ten zbytek u\u017e nech\u00e1 na druh\u00e9m, proto\u017ee r\u00e1d, v\u011bt\u0161inou r\u00e1da b\u00fdv\u00e1 p\u0159ekvapov\u00e1na.Co si vz\u00edt na sebeCo si vz\u00edt na sebe? To\u0165 ot\u00e1zka. Pokud nejdete p\u0159\u00edmo do divadla, kde by bylo vhodn\u00e9 lep\u0161\u00ed spole\u010densk\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, volila bych n\u011bco, co b\u011b\u017en\u011b nos\u00edte. Nem\u011bly by to b\u00fdt tepl\u00e1ky, ale slu\u0161n\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je v\u00e1m pohodln\u00e9, slu\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1m a c\u00edt\u00edte se v n\u011bm velmi dob\u0159e.Dnes ji\u017e nen\u00ed pravidlem, \u017ee v\u0161ichni mu\u017ei za \u017eenu plat\u00ed, proto bych doporu\u010dila hlavn\u011b d\u00edvk\u00e1m, aby nezapomn\u011bly i na pen\u00edze. Osobn\u011b m\u00e1m r\u00e1da, kdy\u017e mu\u017e p\u0159inese kv\u011btinu. Nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt moc drah\u00e1, ale je to takov\u00fd hezk\u00fd symbol.A\u010dkoli se v\u00e1m to mo\u017en\u00e1 bude zd\u00e1t jako \u00fapln\u00fd nesmysl, stalo se mi i to, \u017ee jsme se den p\u0159edem domluvili, \u017ee se sejdeme, ale doty\u010dn\u00fd bohu\u017eel z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho nezn\u00e1m\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu prost\u011b nedorazil. Byla jsem hrozn\u011b na\u0161tvan\u00e1, ale na druhou stranu alespo\u0148 v\u00edm, \u017ee to nebyl rozhodn\u011b ten prav\u00fd.Tak douf\u00e1m, \u017ee a\u0165 u\u017e va\u0161e rande dopadne jakkoli, \u017ee si jej u\u017eijete. A bu\u010fte v klidu, ne\u0159e\u0161te to tak, prot\u011bj\u0161ek je na tom \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u011b jako vy.  "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Prvn\u00ed rande","item":"https:\/\/www.zasekni.cz\/prvni-rande\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]